Short Synopsis
Author Jane Gross combines crucial practical information about caring for an aging parent with her own intimate story of caring for her mother in this essential guide for anyone navigating this unfamiliar, demanding, and emotional territory.

Full Synopsis
In telling the intimate story of caring for her aged and ailing mother, Jane Gross offers indispensable, and often surprising, advice for the rapidly increasing number of adult children responsible for aging parents.

Gross deftly weaves the specifics of her personal experience—a widowed mother with mounting health problems, the attendant collision of fear and ignorance, the awkward role reversal of parent and child, unresolved family relationships with her mother and brother, the conflict between her day job and caregiving—with a comprehensive resource for effectively managing the lives of one's own parents while keeping sanity and strength intact.

Packed with information, A Bittersweet Season explains which questions to ask when looking for a nursing home or assisted living facility; how to unravel the mysteries of Medicare and Medicaid; why finding a new general practitioner should always be the first move when relocating an elderly parent; how to weigh quality against quantity of life when considering medical interventions; why you should always keep a phone charger and an extra pair of glasses in your car; and much more. It also provides astute commentary on a national health care system that has stranded two generations to fend for themselves at this most difficult of times.

No less important are the lessons of the human spirit that Gross learned in the last years of her mother's life, and afterward, when writing for the New York Times and The New Old Age, a blog she launched for the newspaper. Calling upon firsthand experience and extensive reporting, Gross recounts a story of grace and compassion in the midst of a crisis that shows us how the end of one life presents a bittersweet opportunity to heal old wounds and find out what we are made of.

Wise, unflinching, and ever helpful, A Bittersweet Season is an essential guide for anyone navigating this unfamiliar, psychologically demanding, powerfully emotional, and often redemptive territory.

"Kate Reading's flawless performance…[keeps] the melodrama out of this very personal documentary, [capturing] the author's determined efforts to arrange the best care for her mother." ---AudioFile

"There are no easy answers here, because there are none. A thought-provoking resource for end-of-life care." ---Kirkus

"This book is an invaluable and comprehensive primer on what most Americans will face soon. Its honest and loving message is to prepare yourself now." ---Jeff Madrick, author of Age of Greed

"A Bittersweet Season is a unique and lovely book." ---Abraham Verghese, author of Cutting for Stone

"The narrative is so lively and informative that readers will come away feeling more prepared than pessimistic. . . . Both a memoir and a how-to book on aging." ---BookPage

"A Bittersweet Season manages to send its voice aloft, its two parts harmonizing in sorrowful, haunting song." ---The New York Times

"A heart-wrenching story and an informative guide for those caring for aging parents." ---Booklist